Light Problems Driving

it seems that as A MAv sufferer i have intense problems with fluorescent light notably car headlights, office headlights and this can be particurly danagerous while driving as i am literally blinded. I suppose everyone else feels unsafe whilst driving at night?

Nope.
Night glare, yes-- as with headlights appearing from around a corner or even straight oncoming can be bad. Even by day, I can have more trouble than a non-migraneur in hazy/foggy/rainy driving.

With luck, over time you’ll get to or beyond this point yourself.