Hi everyone,
I’m a 33-year-old mom from the Netherlands, and I’m reaching out because I feel like I’ve hit rock bottom. Since September 2024, three months after giving birth to my daughter, I’ve been suffering from extreme vestibular symptoms that started with migraines but evolved into something I can barely explain anymore.
I’ve been diagnosed with vestibular migraine, and I’m also under investigation for a possible AICA compression, but so far there are no clear answers. I experience intense, lingering vertigo symptoms (sometimes lasting up to 3 days) after even the smallest visual or motion trigger.
Here are some examples of what causes symptoms:
• Watching a moving object, like a swing — I feel dizzy for days.
• Doing the VOR exercise (following a letter on a page with head movement) — even 1 minute leaves me non-functional for a full day.
• Looking down into a pan and stirring — I feel like I’m moving with the spoon.
• Following cleaning movements (wiping or mopping).
• Being a passenger in a car — dizziness starts during the ride and lasts for 3 days.
• Even watching someone jump, or changing my baby’s diaper while standing, can trigger it.
• I cannot look at my phone while lying on my right side.
• I’ve become extremely sensitive to any visual-motor combination (e.g. watching TV and typing at the same time — which I try as an exercise).
At this point, I’m basically housebound. I only go outside to walk my daughter for 30 minutes along a rural bike path. I haven’t been to a public indoor space in almost a year. I can’t drive, I can’t take my daughter to the petting zoo or the pool. I’m beyond exhausted.
What I’ve tried:
• Flunarizine — this has helped reduce the constant baseline symptoms somewhat, but I still can’t tolerate any movement or visual load. For example, one short car ride will still cause 3 full days of rotational vertigo.
• Nortriptyline — didn’t help.
• Estrogen therapy for hormonal migraine — slight improvement.
• VOR exercises — much too triggering. One minute = one full day of dizziness.
• Visual-motor exposure (TV + typing) — I’m doing this daily in tiny doses, but progress is extremely slow.
• Walking outdoors daily in low-stimulus surroundings.
• Haven’t tried scopolamine (Scopoderm) yet — but open to it.
Vestibular rehabilitation is currently too intense. Even gentle graded exercises trigger days of setback. I need a more tolerable approach, and I’m looking for advice on medication that can help reduce the sensitivity and allow me to function.
I have an appointment with a neurologist soon (Dr. Ding, MUMC), and I want to ask for help — but I feel like I’m drowning.
Please…
• Has anyone had this extreme level of visual-vestibular hypersensitivity?
• Did any medication help?
• Did anything else make a difference?
I’m a mom trying to care for my little girl while disappearing from the world.
I’d be deeply grateful for your tips, encouragement, or story.
Thank you for reading.