Hi @Fussyfussy - I’m so sorry to hear about this. It sounds like you’ve had a rough few years - I’m right there with you.
Definitely think sleep will help you heal - it’s really the only time your body has to pause and regroup. I’ve heard Melatonin can do great things (I’ve been meaning to ask my neuro if it messes with my current round of 8-thousand meds but keep forgetting).
A few questions for you:
- are you able to go to the gym? (sorry for being a broken record)
- how much time do you spend outside, doing active things?
- how much do you walk each day? (what’s your daily average miles)
- what’s your evening routine like?
I feel like your life in NJ is relatively mellow… Is there a sleep disorders center in your neck of the woods? (also a broken record… but I can recommend a snazzy sleep disorders center when you’re ready).
To answer your questions (and if I stray, apologies: big migraine settling in): I’m definitely a choppy sleeper. Until recently was waking up at 5 or 5:30am (to aura, screaming migraine & the usual dizz) but that’s evened out now that it’s warmer and I’ve recently adjusted to the higher dose of Topamax. Falling asleep is difficult (both eyes & head feel jittery and buzzy), and then I wake in the middle of the night due to dizziness (last night was a real doozy). I’ve been tracking sleep on Migraine Buddy and I get around 6 or sometimes 7hrs a night. But it’s typically interrupted and disturbed by bursts of dizziness. I still don’t dream.
One strange thing my vestibular therapist recommended was to lie on my non-migraine side (this was in context to BPPV diagnosis but it’s still relevant to migraine because it was the same side); that night I slept a full nine hours. Pure heaven. I’ve done that since and have slept much, much better. Sunday I slept almost ten hours, which was the longest I had slept in 2016.
Since downloading Migraine Buddy, I’ve been much more conscientious about going to sleep earlier. I didn’t realize how late I was electing to stay up. I’ve also tried doing more downtime activities (particularly during that dreadful 5am wakeup spell) like adult coloring books, epsom salt baths and listening to lots of Chopin. In doing so, I’ve been able to improve my sleep from an average of 5hrs a night to 7hrs (still interrupted by dizziness and dog) but I really, really work at it… not enough to stress out about it but enough to remind me to not text my friends, etc. Activity also helps with sleep and, despite the severity of my dizziness and migraines, I lead a surprisingly active life (gym 5 days a week, vestibular therapy, clients, taking my dog to the park, cooking three meals a day, etc).
Other tricks I’ve taken up this winter:
- close all blinds to prevent any unnatural light from coming in (ambulances, busses etc)
- avoid provoking activity after 8pm (do my Bs, client decks, bright TV)
- no phones / screen time after 10pm
- no crazy fragrances near my bed
- snuggle my cat hard (her purring is surprisingly therapeutic)
- very mellow cannabis on super migraine nights (the strain I get is on par with a pain-relieving valium mix but it doesn’t mess with my vestibular system - people are mixed about cannabis but my neuro highly recommends it because it’s safer & more effective than pain meds & my migraines typically are grade 7 or higher. it zens me out)
also: only gym in the morning (oof. those endorphins really get the heart pumping, which is my coffee)
Speaking of sleep, it’s getting close to bedtime!
I hope this helped answer your questions - - the strange side sleeping thing really helped (although it could be bppv-related and if so I apologize). And screen avoidance. Chopin also helps - particularly his Nocturnes 
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